Life Commanders 
6 week group conditioning program
Book Your 30 Minute FREE Application Call Now, And Discover Your Purpose and Drive and How To Live Life As A Powerful Man
“Discover the tactics and strategies we were taught in the Military behind creating, living and leading a purposeful, driven Life...
TO BECOME THE COMMANDER YOUR KIDS ARE PROUD OF, THE PARTNER SHE ADORES AND THE PROVIDER YOU TRULY DESIRE TO BE!"
Life Commanders 
Life Commanders 
6 Week Group conditioning  program
Book Your 30 Minute FREE Application Call Now, And Discover How To Unleash Your Full Potential And Get The Most Out Of Your Business
“Discover the tactics and strategies we were taught in the Military behind creating, living and leading a purposeful, driven Life...
TO BECOME THE COMMANDER YOUR KIDS ARE PROUD OF, THE PARTNER SHE ADORES AND THE PROVIDER YOU TRULY DESIRE TO BE!"
  Do you find yourself going off at your partner or kids for no reason? Only to feel guilty about it afterwards. 

  Has your relationship lost the passion and you have become "disconnected housemates"?  
  
Have you lost the fire for life and feel like you're just going through the motions?
WHAT IF!
...Instead of wanting to avoid spending time with your partner and just focusing on the business, you actually loved spending time with them and they appreciated you and the partner your have become.

...Instead of feeling like your lost and alone and being constantly criticised, you felt deeply connected, appreciated and totally passionate about your relationship .

...Instead of waking up tired, bored and unmotivated, going about your day with minimal direction and discipline, you felt excited about life and everything you have created for yourself and your family .

...Instead of using I don't have time to exercise as an excuse to not maintain positive health which is impacting your business, your self esteem and confidence, you wake up with total certainty, drive and peak energy to achieve all your goals .

All This And More Is Possible When You Step Up And Cut Out Your Bullshit Story!

WHY I CREATED THIS PROGRAM
Simply, I want you to take command in all areas of your life but more importantly within your relationships and business, to create the life you desire. After going through my own slump and coming out of it I realised there were more men out there, with the same amount of passion and desire to succeed and be happy as I do but don't have the self discipline, confidence, time management and planning skills, structure and resilience and understanding of masculinity and its impact in business and relationships - which forces them into a state of procrastination, leaving tasks incomplete and money on the table, leaving them feeling stuck, unsure on what to do and how to overcome it and feeling lonely in their own relationships.
 
The 6 Week Conditioning Program is a simple step by step weekly program that teaches you the power of a bulletproof mindset, military time and planning tools, routines and habits. Once implemented into your business and life it will immediately see you shift from being stuck to back in action. Most importantly the program will completely remove your procrastination, limiting thoughts and dis empowering patterns and beliefs and anything else holding you back by reprogramming your mind with new strategies!

A lot of Men are at war with themselves and are fighting an uphill battle which is holding their businesses back from scaling..... their relationships from flourishing.....but with strong self discipline, bullet proof confidence, resilience and a powerful belief system, you too can finally improve those areas in your you have been meaning to improve to achieve your goals and dreams quicker.
WIN THE INTERNAL BATTLE 
TO SUCCEED IN BUSINESS AND LIFE!
WIN THE INTERNAL BATTLE 
TO SUCCEED IN BUSINESS AND LIFE!
Your Conditioning Program Includes:
Your Conditioning Program Includes:
Week 1 -How To Build The Foundation Of Change - Look within to change the thing. Week 1 will focus on unlocking and debugging your negative behaviours, auditing all your habits and stories so you can avoid making mistakes over and over again whilst creating a road map to achieve success over the course of the program.
Week 2 - Review, Redirect, Reload and Execute
There is a power in keeping the commitments you set yourself and that power can be lost if not correctly applied within your life and business. Week 2 will be focused on creating a laser focus approach to your business and life and learning how to turn your triggers (what pisses you off) into your greatest learning and getting clear on what you want to achieve.
Week 3 - Redefine The Man You Are
Most people don't get what they want in life because they don't have clear direction and structure or have a compelling future. This simple, but effective process will give you clarity and direction. Week 3 will be focused on getting clear on the stories and patterns holding you back, creating a bullet proof mindset each day, how to break your destructive patterns and how to master your focus.
Week 4 - How To Build The Ultimate Relationships
Week 4 will be focused on getting clear on what drives your current choices and results,  how to break and interrupt your current patterns in your relationship, how to understand the masks we carry and drop them for good (so your kids don’t repeat the same mistakes), understand what your kids and wife need not want - more easily and creating the blueprint for your ultimate relationship.
Week 5 - Understanding The Power Of Standards
The standard you walk past is the standard you are willing to accept. Your business and relationship will never exceed your identity and what you believe you are worth. Week 5 will be focused on creating a new identity and patterns for your success, gaining clarity and laser focus on your values and standards, the key fundamentals of being man today that will drive connection with your partner and clients in business and accessing your true gifts to allow you to know your PURPOSE.
Week 6 - Execute The Mission
With such a huge personal and business breakthrough, uncertainty and doubt can creep in without solidifying the results and new changes made. This week will be focused on creating a daily method of operation to keep you on target, ,how to make sure you don’t sabotage all your great results and redesigning your 12 month road map for success – now you are a Life Commander!  
Become a Life Commander today and secure your spot in the 6 Week Conditioning Program today and become apart of a strong, committed, supportive Army of Men looking to live their best life!

For the duration of the program,  you, myself and all the other participating Life Commanders hold you and each other accountable.  My mission is to ensure you become comfortable at being uncomfortable whilst maintaining positive control on your daily operations and mindset.
It can be easier then you think, to lose the motivation and drive to live your best life, to continue running your business when things get tough and you feel beaten and defeated and everything at home isn't going well also. We can have all the tools and knowledge to grow the business and some idea of how to maintain a healthy relationship but can burnout by not having self discipline, confidence and resilience if we are not careful.
 
So I thought to myself, “What are the key mindset hacks that I have learnt from my time as an Infantry Officer in the Army and from all the programs, books and clients I have worked with that can help Men become Life Commanders and take charge in all areas of life and business?

I came to the realisation there are 3 main mindset hacks you can use right now that took me 7 years of service to figure out, so I have to condense it down into 6 weeks to keep to my promise and over deliver on value for you. 
If you’re not winning in all areas of your business and it's taking a toll on your life, the 3 critical points below should be your main priority: 
THE WHY
The motivation and desire of a platoon on operations or on exercise to push past their limits, what they thought was achievable and to put their bodies and lives on the line for the mission, was when they clearly understood why they were conducting the task and to what effect it would achieve for them and their team. Without a clear and strong why, soldiers would never want to work for their leaders and coincidentally, the mission would at times be achieved at the lowest standard or not be achieved at all as a result. Its important you get clear on your why, so your path is clear, true and you have the resilience to push past all obstacles.
THE WHAT
In business and in life, the "What" is your daily operations. The "What" underpins what exactly you need to achieve on a daily basis to meet your weekly, monthly, yearly goals and your basic human needs. To often men get caught out with fear, procrastination and self sabotage patterns when they are confronted with a level of uncertainty, confusion and self-doubt. This then makes women feel unsafe in the relationship on an energetic level as the man isn't confident in their own direction. On the battlefield, prior to any mission, the team would be briefed on what they are doing and to what effect each action achieves. When the "What" is unclear, the direction is unclear, your mind will find ways to sabotage your progress and/or your self esteem and confidence will be shot. So get CLEAR on what it is you are too do!
THE HOW
A life Commander lives for direction.. A life Commander thrives for clarity... and In business and life, A life commander plans from the heart and executes in the now with clear and concise, formulated actions to achieve their goals. The "How" is the method or means to which the Life Commander conducts themselves on a daily basis. The "How incorporates all facets of business, relationships and mindset, from the planning phase through to the execution phase. The how can be confusing and overwhelming if you don't have a clear understanding of the method or means to achieve your tasks. This level of uncertainty and frustration can lead to procrastination, self doubt and low self esteem and many other negative experiences as a result.
Most Men are running their life, business and relationship blind, with minimal structure, direction and clarity expecting things will just fall into place and happen. Problem is most men are using the old playbook, that doesn't work anymore. It's time to take back command of our life and business today!

IF YOU GREW UP LIKE ME, YOU WOULD HAVE BEEN CONDITIONED TO HAVE A 1 ANGLE MINDSET WHEN IT CAME TO RUNNING YOUR LIFE -  ALWAYS THINKING "WORK HARD AND WORK LOTS" IN THE JOURNEY OF SUCCESS AND FEELING "OVERWHELMED AND STRESSED" WAS THE NORMAL WAY
HERE ARE SOME QUESTIONS YOU SHOULD BE ASKING YOURSELF:
HOW AM I GOING TO TAKE COMMAND OF MY BUSINESS AND LIFE?
HOW AM I GOING TO BUILD ON MY SELF CONFIDENCE AND DISCIPLINE?
HOW AM I GOING TO DESTROY MY PROCRASTINATION AND SELF SABOTAGING PATTERNS AND HABITS? 
HOW CAN I REIGNITE THE LOVE AND PASSION IN MY RELATIONSHIP?
So here's the mother of all bombs... if you aren’t asking these questions every day, or if you haven’t got a Coach or a strong community to hold you accountable and inspire you to take positive, well thought out action to make things happen, then I can tell you that your business and life is not going to change, unless you do! Fair call?
 
This 6 Week Conditioning Program is full of simple done with you program that any Man can complete! They are powerful tools, systems and mind hacks developed by smart, successful and powerful people - and as long as you are committed to your own personal growth are willing to do anything to achieve your goals, you can begin to live life as powerful man in a world that keeps telling us we are toxic.

Limited spots are available to complete the program and are accepted only through application only. If you are 100% committed in making change in your life, business and relationship then book your 
FREE Application Call Now!
ARE YOU READY TO TAKE COMMAND?

"MUST have Group Coaching Program"

The fastest, easiest way to help you boost confidence, build resilience and self discipline to create a bullet proof mindset when implemented consistently and correctly  within your day to day operations in life.

Presented by Curtis Tofa

Ex Infantry Army Captain with Middle East deployment operational experience delivering  the most up to date military mindset training and coaching to help Men create the mindset, structure and direction required to live life as a powerful man!
The 3 Core Military Mindset Pillars Used To Achieve Success In Life
Simple methods to master self discipline
How to boost confidence and certainty
Master the ability to command and control every situation
What gets me fired up is to see Men implementing the Military mindset within their life, business and relationships creating positive change and balance within all other areas of life. 

Here is a sample of some of the feedback on my work with my clients. Some words from my clients:
"NEW STORY"
Breakthrough
When i first signed up for the course, it was a leap of faith. I really didn't know what to expect, let alone the impact this course was going to have on my life. I expected the course to include some tips and tricks, life lessons and micro managing problems with skills formulated through a military background.  Throughout the six weeks, Curtis educated me on why we tend to create these self-destructive stories of ourselves in our minds, and gave me the answers to a lot of questions I had been asking myself for a long time. Without bullshitting you! I can remember the feelings I used to associate with my story. I learned to change my perception and associated feelings, and therefore have changed my story for the better. I now feel empowered, strong, and in control! 
- Clinton Wall
"POWER OF BELIEF"
Mindset
When I first contacted Curtis I had completely lost my fire. I had lost myself & that ability I had in me to take control, make decisions & to simply put into effect action that was needed to get the job done.  I have learnt that vulnerability takes courage. I have also got my mojo back to take control of my life & my decisions. My confidence is back, as is my own sense of purpose & identity. I have certainty & strength in my convictions & the knowledge of having an awesome Coach in my corner.
I AM a Life Commander!

 - Trent Cook







"NEW DIRECTION"
Transformation
As a young entrepreneur running a business of my own as well as being heavily involved in two other business' I found myself overwhelmed when it came to time management, decision making & overcoming my own thoughts & emotions.   Curtis taught me how to manage my mind & emotions including eliminating all negative thoughts & limiting beliefs from not just my business brain but also in my private life. My mindset now is dramatically different. I no longer put off or procrastinate over difficult/challenging situations, my routine is set in stone & I’ve eliminated any negativity out from my life.  I have the upmost respect for Curtis & could not recommend his work higher!!

-Cooper Thomas 
aka Wilderness Chef

"NEW STORY"
Breakthrough
When i first signed up for the course, it was a leap of faith. I really didn't know what to expect, let alone the impact this course was going to have on my life. I expected the course to include some tips and tricks, life lessons and micro managing problems with skills formulated through a military background.  Throughout the six weeks, Curtis educated me on why we tend to create these self-destructive stories of ourselves in our minds, and gave me the answers to a lot of questions I had been asking myself for a long time. Without bullshitting you! I can remember the feelings I used to associate with my story. I learned to change my perception and associated feelings, and therefore have changed my story for the better. I now feel empowered, strong, and in control! 
- Clinton Wall
"POWER OF BELIEF"
Mindset
When I first contacted Curtis I had completely lost my fire. I had lost myself & that ability I had in me to take control, make decisions & to simply put into effect action that was needed to get the job done.  I have learnt that vulnerability takes courage. I have also got my mojo back to take control of my life & my decisions. My confidence is back, as is my own sense of purpose & identity. I have certainty & strength in my convictions & the knowledge of having an awesome Coach in my corner.
I AM a Life Commander!

 - Trent Cook
"NEW DIRECTION"
Transformation
As a young entrepreneur running a business of my own as well as being heavily involved in two other business' I found myself overwhelmed when it came to time management, decision making & overcoming my own thoughts & emotions.   Curtis taught me how to manage my mind & emotions including eliminating all negative thoughts & limiting beliefs from not just my business brain but also in my private life. My mindset now is dramatically different. I no longer put off or procrastinate over difficult/challenging situations, my routine is set in stone & I’ve eliminated any negativity out from my life.  I have the upmost respect for Curtis & could not recommend his work higher!!

-Cooper Thomas 
aka Wilderness Chef
HERE'S YOUR NEXT STEP!
This 6 Week Conditioning Program is a group online done with you program that is completed over Zoom. You will find it easy to do, follow and implement into your daily operations.

My sense of fulfilment is when my students and clients get results and the positive impact is has on their business and their life. When you help yourself, you are helping others because it is only when your cup is full that you can truly help others fill theirs, right?
So what’s in it for you? Why should you do this?

I am all to familiar with having the imbalance in place where you are not taking enough action and feeling lost or taking a lot of action and getting results but feeling unfulfilled, stressed and and a sense of overwhelm which is impacting all other areas of your life.

Most Men are running their life, business and relationship blind, with minimal structure, direction and clarity expecting things will just fall into place and happen. Problem is most men are using the old playbook, that doesn't work anymore. It's time to take back command of our life and business today!
   
I'm here to tell you that this does not end well, but it can all change, and you don't need to go through it alone or to go through the pain and stress figuring it out all yourself.
IT’S TIME TO TAKE MASSIVE ACTION.

Here's why...
One day, you will hit a point in your life, business, relationship where you have achieved great success but you are still not where you want to be and you begin to sabotage your success and find you have stagnated in your growth and unsure how to move forward.

You will realise that your thoughts, your actions and your beliefs are what is holding you back from ultimate success. 

And you will see to really achieve what you want, you need to believe in a different identity than the one you hold yourself in now and that it all starts with your attitude, mindset and having clear direction and structure to begin with - and without that bulletproof mindset and planning, you won't get there.
ABOUT CURTIS
My name's Curtis Tofa and I am an Ex Army Infantry Captain and after my 7 years of service I went through massive change and growth that would transform my life and that of my family forever - I decided to own my shit and take 100% responsibility.
At 25 I had my own moment where I had to change.
 I had not only lost myself but what I did see every day in the mirror I would cover up in partying, booze and drugs and casual sex. You would not know it from the outside but I was struggling with it all. The front I had was a tough, strong, disciplined army leader that had his life all sorted. That was so far from reality. I started to question, where I was going in life, how to be an amazing partner, Step Dad, successful entrepreneur and still having my own identity.
Then one day I had a tough conversation with my partner and it became a must for me to change. First I let myself go for years and stopped exercising daily and began eating unhealthy and drinking. So I got started on my health and this helped me get my peak energy and positive mood back - no more short tempered snappy Curtis! Then I lost some weight, gained my strength back and started building that internal trust back with myself - making commitments and following through on them.
What I quickly identified was only part of my life seemed to be improving and I was still struggling with the daily fight I would have with my mind and the negative self talk. I was still hesitant to take action, to step out of my comfort zone and still felt triggered by the people in my life. Despite achieving a-lot in my military career I still felt unmotivated and driven to do anything more than just wake up and go to work.
Then I realised there was another step to take, by starting to dig into the beliefs and values I had back then and to clear out what did not serve me.

Through doing the work on myself and transforming my own life I gained qualifications as:

- Master Practitioner in Neuro Linguistic Programming
- Master Practitioner Hypnotherapy
- Master Practitioner Time Line Therapy
Along with 7 year service and operational experience in the Middle East as an Army Officer, I am combining my skills as a Master Coach and Trainer with my business and life experience as a step father to help more entrepreneurs and small business owners to become a Life Commander in all areas of their life and business.
Yes, I want Curtis to teach me the Military mindset to achieve my goals faster!
Yes, I want Curtis to teach me the Military mindset to achieve my goals faster!
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